Do you want to?
Deepen your romantic relationships, family dynamics and professional partnerships with men to create more connections and eliminate disconnect? Start learning the hidden language of men today.

Are you tired of?

feeling UNSEEN, UNHEARD, and MISUNDERSTOOD and taken for granted by the man/men in your life?

getting ONE-WORD answers from your spouse or son? Apparently, “fine” and “good” make up the majority of their vocabulary.

feeling like you’re RAISING THE KIDS by yourself as your husband is always unavailable?

seeing UNFINISHED PROJECTS around the house and yard?

having to hear the same stories OVER and OVER again from the man/men in your life?

being SINGLE or feeling like you’ll always be the bridesmaid versus the bride?


BEGIN YOUR JOURNEY HERE
Relationships can be difficult to navigate on our own. Start shifting your perspective by taking this first step. Remember that small steps will lead to big changes.
This package is the pre-requisite for all subsequent lessons.
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Take control of your future!
Meet men in the partnership you’ve always dreamed of. Purchase all 30 lessons at our best value pricing. This course will take you from student to master in understanding male behaviour.

Blaise the Trail
PODCAST with Vanessa Lusignan and award winning Author Blaise Hunter
Catch up with Vanessa Lusignan the founder and program creator of The Hidden Language of Men as she chats with award winning female empowerment Author, Blaise Hunter.
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you must complete Foundational Lessons prior to selecting other elective lessons




I’ve spent 16 years in a fast-paced, highly demanding, and dynamic male-dominated work environment, 8 of those years as a frontline supervisor. This occupational experience, coupled with multiple failed relationships and being raised with three older brothers, challenged my knowledge and understanding of males. I’ve witnessed firsthand the miscommunication between genders. In any form, miscommunication has the potential for high consequence scenarios in the workplace to hurt feelings and resentment in personal relationships.
My drive and desire to understand the reasons behind the communication breakdowns led me to become certified in Understanding Men, where I tirelessly interviewed and learned directly from the target source–Men of all ages! The course lessons that I offer are curated from that knowledge purposely directed to support women who want to deepen their connection with men through illuminating perspective traps and shifting the lens on understanding.
After personally applying this knowledge, I have built open and communicative relationships across all areas of my life. My career thrives, as stress and frustration have been transformed into understanding, curiosity, and appreciation. I kicked heartache to the curb and married an incredible man, and our partnership has become a learning opportunity that leaves our unique personalities preserved and strengthened.
I can show you the way…